Telling Children About Racial Injustice

The recent deaths of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Breonna Taylor have served to further expose the unjust and unfair treatment of people of color in America. The protests are all over television, newspapers, and the internet, reaching cities world-wide. The violence that sometimes accompanies the protests is scary. It has been especially unsettling that many of these deaths have come at the hands of the police, whom we have been taught are here to serve and protect citizens.
Conversations with children are essential for all parents to have. Silence will not protect you or them. Not talking about events will only fuel fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. Silence allows children to draw their own, often faulty, conclusions about what is happening and why. It is important to acknowledge the truth of racism and unfairness, as well as to talk about the possibilities of change.

  • Honesty is the key in a conversation with children of any age.
  • A plan of action will reduce some of the fears both parent and child are experiencing.  
  • Let them know you do not have all the answers.
  • Do not be afraid of your emotions.
  • Share your emotions with your children.
  • Allow children to express their opinions and feelings. 
  • Talk about their feelings.  
  • Anger and anxiety are appropriate.  
  • Racism is senseless and is difficult to explain.
  • Take time to address your child’s questions and comments.
  • Balance your acknowledgement of the reality of racism with messages about hope for change, the availability of help, and the value of activism.
  • Affirm that you believe it is wrong to treat someone differently or unfairly because of their race, and that you believe that racial injustice is still a problem.

In 2020, the world has experienced so many things have been “unprecedented”. Racial protests are not new, but they have increased the anxiety felt from Covid-19. Parents want confident and empowered children. Talk to your children about the current climate, and give them the right to express their hurt, anger and disappointment. Empower their opinions about the occurrences and possible solutions. Be honest and informative. Now is the time for explanation and empowerment.

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